Archive for July, 2010

27
Jul

Love Sweet Limbo

Ahh, love.  It comes.  It goes.  It takes your breath away… leaves you floating on air.  Then one day, it simply takes your breath… leaves you deflated, void of life, and gasping for the very air you once floated effortlessly on.    But what goes up must come down, right?   We fall passionately in love… can’t [...]

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23
Jul

Why He’s Getting the Red Light On Sex Night

The kids are asleep.  The house is quiet.  It’s been a while since the mattress springs have been properly challenged.  He’s feeling frisky.  All arrows point to go on the sex front…for him.  He makes a move to coerce her into the bedroom.  But instead of a warm, passionate kiss followed by a romp in [...]

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20
Jul

The Secrets We Keep

Does your spouse know everything there is to know about you?  Do you know everything there is to know about your spouse?  Are you an open book when it comes to each and every detail of your thoughts, insecurities, fantasies, embarrassing moments, etc.?  Is your spouse?  If you think you know every minor detail about [...]

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16
Jul

Shag the Nag

Do women nag?   Hmm, do babies cry?  Do men like sex?  These, of course, are all rhetorical questions.  The answers are yes, yes, and yes.  It’s true!  Women nag.  “Are you going to get your hair cut this week?” (asked 4 times before he follows through and it becomes apparent that he does, in [...]

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13
Jul

Share A Chore, Avoid A War

A chore is, by definition, an unpleasant or burdensome task.  Sarcastically translated – action everyone desperately wants a piece of.  So, it’s easy to see why couples get so combative when they aren’t allowed their fair share.  These are, after all, life’s little treasures, aren’t they?  Who doesn’t love to prepare meals three times a [...]

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09
Jul

Bound By Criticism

Few things can crush our spirit and strangle our marriage like unrelenting criticism from our spouse…the one person we depend on for strength, love, and acceptance.  A constant onslaught of jabs, insults, and nit-picking leaves devastating scars on the hearts of our spouses…and, sometimes, gaping wounds on our marital trust that may never fully heal.  [...]

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06
Jul

Sexual Fantasy, Reality, And You

We all have them.  We all enjoy them.  We all hide them.  Sexual fantasies.  Our dirty little “not so secret” secret.  Men and women alike entertain our own individual fantasies…those things that turn us on, rev our engines, send our hearts to racing, our body temps to rising,  and our drawers to dropping.   Of [...]

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